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Showing posts with label Michelle. Show all posts

Saturday, October 18, 2025

Four Years

It's hard for me to express sometimes just how proud I am of my wife. Four years ago she had something that controlled her and her life and she needed to get away from it. She had a problem with drinking and it was beyond even what I saw as she hid it quite well from me, plus I was doing a lot of traveling with RTI which made it easier to conceal. 

It was four years ago today that she knew she needed help and she went and got it. She was in a facility that helps people dry out, a gesture that she wanted to be healed.

Here we are 4 years later, she is alcohol free and loving life. I can't say how proud of her that I am and how thankful for many people along the way. To her sister Dani who first reached out to me and helped me understand how dangerous this problem was. To Amanda for her assistance, to Chris for showing her undying love and support. To Juan who beat his own battle and was always there for words of encouragement for Michelle. To my family for being so supportive of her and her battle. Thank you all for returning my wonderful wife to me and allowing us to be happy again.

The coin that you see is the one I bought for Michelle for her 4th Anniversary. 

Saturday, July 13, 2024

1,000 Days

If you happen to see my wonderful wife today, take a little bit of time out and congratulate her on a remarkable accomplishment. 

It was 1,000 days ago today that she realized that the alcohol demon was getting the best of her and she knew she needed to stop and take control of her life once again. It was 1,000 days ago today that she started that remarkable journey. 

It was a hospital stay, a trip to rehab, Alcoholics Anonymous Meetings and a whole lot of determination with love and support of everyone, and here was are with the Michelle that I fell in love with and not the one who was the most functional alcoholic that one could imagine. 

I'm very proud of her and am so happy she decided to right the path, and return to being the one that everyone loves. 

Give it up for this amazing woman. 

Friday, July 17, 2015

Big Ole Hairy Friday

Yes it is once again that time of the week that we all look foreword to, when we can take time to cease the labors for the week and take a little bit of needed time out to enjoy the fruits of those labors. It is once again the dawn of another weekend, and a Big Ole Hairy Friday!

Well if you are looking for a little bit of cheap, and by cheap I mean free entertainment tonight, BOPARC will be showing the movie Dolphin Tale 2 at Jock Roberts Park. This is a great family movie if you have not seen it yet.

We had another episode with Michelle Wednesday Night where we had to call an ambulance to take her to the Emergency Room. Same symptoms as before but not as intense and a different diagnosis. She remembers everything this time and has no memory losses and and seemed to snap out of it much quicker. The diagnosis this time however was Complex Migraine but I'm not so sure how confident I am in that diagnosis.

Our weekend plans if at all possible will be traveling tomorrow to Michelle's Sister's home in Beaver for her niece Abby's Birthday/Graduation Party tomorrow afternoon. Michelle's health permitting of course but I think we will make it.

Have a Great Day

Hi ho hi ho

Saturday, June 27, 2015

A Busy Couple of Days and a Big Scare

Thursday Night me and my wonderful wife had just finished watching Orange is the New Black's final episode of the season. We were just winding down for a few minutes and playing a game or two before going to bed.

It was at this point that I had thought my life had changed forever with a tragedy. I look back and she is leaning on her chair towards me talking some garble and incoherent language. Sitting at my computer I instantly knew things were not OK, so I threw off my headphones and glasses and started to walk towards her to check on her.

It took about 3 seconds to realize something was not right, her face was drooping, her motor skills were greatly diminished and she was slurring anything and everything she said very badly. I'm thinking she was having a stroke, my first phone call was to her Sister Chris who was teaching Vacation Bible School at her Church on the Mileground but there was no answer. Her phone was somewhere else and turned down because she was teaching. At that moment she felt a panic that she needed to check her phone and returned my phone call without listening to the voice mail I sent her inquiring what I needed.

I told her I thought Michelle was having a stroke and knowing a stroke victim has a small window to overturn any effects of a stroke she immediately instructed me to call an ambulance, so I immediately hung up with her and called 911.

From the time I had first called Chris until BOTH Jim and Chris AND the Ambulance arrived from the Mileground was literally about 4 minutes. They pulled in First as Jim is a Former EMT here in Morgantown and probably would have won any race against the best NASCAR driver to get here ahead of them, I'm still in amazement of how quick both Jim and Chris as well as the Ambulance got here.

We loaded her up on the gurney and took her to the Emergency Room, thinking we only had a 60 minute window to administer the medications necessary to offset a strokes affects. Being she was coming in by ambulance and it was a Trauma, we got priority like and was seen by a team of experts in a matter of a few minutes.

Within that first 60 minutes, the Ambulance arrived, she was transported, seen, giving a CT Scan and EKG and an assessment by the Neurologist in about a total of 45 minutes.

In the Emergency Room her speech returned slightly, she was coherently having conversations with everyone and appeared to be snapping out of it, but still with greatly diminished motor skills and speech.

After a few hours there they decided to admit her and administer an MRI, I run home home to get things she asked me to get and Chris, Jim, Amanda, Chad, Laiah, Hayley and Josh all waiting with her to go upstairs.

Before I left, Jim walked in and asked if he could pray for her, well the obvious answer was yes and he did so.

I run home and grab a few things and returned her Dad's text message with a Phone call. I told him she has made a tremendous comeback from earlier in the night, but exhaustion made her appear that she was she was dropping back into it.

I gather her stuff, run back to the hospital as she is now in a room and I go up to her room and get the absolute joyous surprise of my life as she had appeared to completely slip out of it. Her speech was back to 100% and no slurring, her greatly diminished motor skills had returned and she had no idea where she was or how she got there. I walk into the room and I saw a puzzled look on her face as if she did not know who I was, but fortunately that puzzled look was how did I get here and what happened.

Relieved on my part is an extreme understatement. We got her settled down and everyone left once they felt she was going to be OK which was around 1:00 AM or so. I think I left around 1:30 to return home and give her a small chance to rest as she was exhausted.

They got her up around 4:00 or so (same time I woke up after about 2 hours of sleep, but I rolled back over for another hour and a half) to give her her MRI.

I returned to the Hospital about 6:30 after talking to her and picking up some breakfast that she wanted.

When I walk into the room, she had little to no recollection of the night before. She does not remember talking to her Dad on the phone (after she went back to her room), but she remembers talking to my Brother on the Phone. She remembers Chad being there, but not Hayley. She remembers her niece (Dr) Amanda being there, but not Jim or Chris.

Obviously this scared her a little, she had lost a number of hours from her life and only slightly recalled it.

Her Sister Chris also joined me at the hospital and they administered and EEG about 9:30 or so. After that the Doctor came in and spoke with us, she scored a 0 on the Stroke test, the CT Scan and EKG looked fine, the MRI showed no problems and they were just waiting on the EEG results to make a final diagnosis.

Everything came back fine, they think it was something called Transient Global Amnesia (TGA), but they could not rule out a Transient Ischemic Attack (TIA) and determined she was at no health risk any longer and released her.

She has no trouble remembering anything from yesterday and we even went out to dinner yesterday evening and went to Sam's to do our grocery for the week before returning home. It was as if nothing happened, she just lost a few hours of her life that she can't remember anything from that particular time frame. I am thankful to say the absolute minimum and would like to thank everyone who was asking about her and concerned for her, the list would be too numerous to name, just know we are thankful for each and every one of you and the roles you played in conveying messages to others and taking that burden off of us so we could concentrate on her well being.

I can't express the comfort and relief in knowing my wife, my best friend and my soulmate is going to be OK.